I hate my stepdaughters....is that bad? I have one 22 and one 18. They say all of this crap about being Christian and wonderful people, and they don't drink and they don't swear and we are going to hell because we don't go to their denomination and we drink (even though their mother's side of the family do the same thing and that's ok...and both are dating guys that don't even go to church!). This past mother's day, they got their BM tickets for her and the 22 yo to go to a concert. They aren't doing anything for my husband for father's day. The 18 year old has to come eat with us because of the court order, but that's all. The 22 yo acted like she didn't even know it was father's day. I hate that they keep hurting him over and over again and he takes it! I don't have kids so maybe I don't understand. But I would NEVER let a child speak to me the way they speak to him and treat him the way they do. But he still pays for stuff and wants to do stuf for them. I'm ready to tell them both off. We'll see what happens on Sunday, but if the 22 yo doesn't show up, I'm going to tell her she is getting off of our cell phone plan and will pay for her own insurance starting Monday. I've had it. Am I crazy - am I wrong? Are you supposed to just let them treat you like sh*t and keep being nice? I understand you love them, but shouldn't you teach them the proper way to behave? You guys are great around here and I just needed to vent. My poor husband was so sad.