This is girl who is terrifed of her BM we have always been loving supportive and there. Her mom leaves her alone til midnight while she's out a college sporting events and bars and the court still doesn't see her unfit. I have backed my husband in his fight until it literally bankrupted us because I wanted her to have a better life. I make no apologies for calling her a little bitch because simply that's what she has become. I gave my husband the option to take her but I will be staying home with our daughter. My parents coparented and I knew if I made a bad decision on dad's watch I knew my mother would not approve of it and it was gonna be my ass when I got to moms its called respect and the problem with most SK's is they have none for anyone they are always the victims. As a SK you can choose to be grateful to have one loving and supportive home which she has had and make the most of it when your there however she chooses to repeatedly disrespect and spit in DH and my face. I donot wish for my own child to witness this behavior an to think it is acceptable under any circumstances. DH has done everything to coparent with BM and she simply won't sooner or later it's time for SD to realize what home is safer and better and respect it, I know I knew at her age when my SM walked out on my dad I knew that even tho I could party and live baically by myself and do as I wanted my Family and home with my mother and SD was what was best. I have given this child every opportunity and I have never treated her like SD or the pain in my ass she is but today is going to be the day, as I keep saying is I'M DONE.