I am a SM to a 11 yr old girl. I have been in her life 4 years. The BM rarely saw my SD. Now she seeing the SD whenever she wants. The BM is given the authority to over ride my rules or my relationships and activities with my SD. The BM was given permission to get a cell phone for the SD. The BM and I arw not fond of each other. She is an manipulator ans try to discredit me. She has disrepected me in feomt of my SD by calling me a b@$#. She has texy my husband for money she is court ordered to pay child support. She has quit her job to avoid arrrst fro being in violation of probation.