Dear Xxxx,

Your arrangement of the pillows and bed say to me that you feel like you must be on top of every bit of activity that happens in this household. That's too much togetherness for someone who strongly values her privacy. The bed remains where I have put it and your head belongs at the HEAD BOARD under the window. This is a rule and I will not bend on it.

Your guns have been removed from their leaning position in the corner by your bed. I do not consider this a safe way to store guns. They will be put away until your father finds a safe gun case to put in a safe place where they can be properly stored.

I sat on the toilet yesterday in someone else's pee. When I lifted the lid, it was streaming down the inside of the seat too. Your father said he did it because he used the toilet last. Your father never misses the toilet or a chance to make excuses for you. I can think of nothing more gross than someone who would constantly do this and pretend not to know. If this sloppy behavior (not lifting the lid and aiming with care) doesn't stop yesterday, YOU will be cleaning the toilet daily.

Xxxxx