I'm so TIRED
I am so run down from dealing with BM. I mean it is always something, and I need a serious vacation from her shit.
We had a huge win in November, getting 50/50 custody, but now we are waiting for the hearing to adjust child support. In the mean time, BM is trying to run up her expenses in any way possible. She changed her work schedule so that she now 'needs' before school daycare in addition to after school care. On top of that the incessant crap talking to SD is non-stop, and it is really taking a toll on SD emotionally. And there is nothing we can do about it. Nothing. Never.ending.bull.
I'm just so sick of this chick. Sick to death. I can usually take it all in stride, but add on the pressure of trying to close on a house, DH being sick, and Christmas...I'm going to lose my mind. Pray for me friends. Or light a candle. Or something! Thanks for your ear.
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I just want to say you can
I just want to say you can pull through this. .. . take a few minutes to yourself daily and breath deeply to relieve stress for a few minutes.
Even if it is locking yourself in the bathroom for 20 minutes so there are no interruptions.
I pray things will eventually level out for you guys.
********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************
It will all work out. Enjoy
It will all work out. Enjoy the holidays, and take some time to yourself when you can.
As for the trash talking to SD, you won't be able to stop BM. Do you think counseling would help SD? We have SS9 in counseling for a lot of reasons, but it seems to be beneficial for when BM trash talks us. SS can go in there and pour his heart out and the counseler talks him through it.
"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus