Happy birthday son!
28! Where did the time go? 26 years ago your mom made me your dad when she married me. We were already the three musketeers. The wedding just made it official. 6 days ago we celebrated our 26th anniversary. Your mom and I always make sure to include you in our anniversary celebration whether you are with us or not. It is your day as well. We enjoyed your call while we were in the wilderness with your grand parents.
Being your dad is my proudest accomplishment.
26 years ago we officially became a family, more than 9 years ago you joined the USAF and started your life's journey as an adult, 6 years ago you officiated when your mom and I renewed our vows on our 20th and I appreciate that you did not burst in to tears crying for your mommy like you did at the first wedding, 5 years ago you asked me to adopt you which is the greatest gift I can imagine and today you turn 28. It is hard to believe that the little guy that I used to chase ducks around the golf course with outside of your mom's apartment is 28.
I am proud of you son. Your mom and I miss you every day and enjoy every moment we get with you whether that is in person or on the phone. We are proud of the man that you are and look forward to sharing in what you do in your life going forward. Enjoy your next year in Germany and be safe.
Thank you for your service son. Thank you for picking me.
Love,
Dad.
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Great post, Rags. I'm so
Great post, Rags. I'm so happy for you.
Happy Birthday!!!
Such a lovely post. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks everyone.
Just sharing the message I sent my Skid this AM.
Happy Birthday to your son
Happy Birthday to your son and Happy Anniversary! You're a great example of how step-parenting can work and be wonderful!
Thanks.
Thanks.
I am very fortunate to have a partner who is a great mom and supported me as an equity parent. And fortunate that we have a very simple blended family configuration. One Skid, no prior marriage for my DW, no kids in my prior marriage. We always lived far from the NCP side of our blended family equation and only had to deal with a long distance visitation schedule so the influence of the toxic opposition was manageable.
Many have it far worse than I have ever had it as far as SParenting and blended family life is concerned.
HBD to him and
HBD to him and congratulations to you too for another successful year of parenting an awesome kid!