Sd8 has moved up a class in swimming so now needs to go twice a week. The other night is a night when SO never has her. It was decided the best thing to do was to get the teacher to email BM. Wow she actually did something for her daughter and took her!! Just when i think she is actually going to start putting her children first, there is a hidden agenda!
She txt Sd15 to find out what time she would get to swim, which slightly annoys me, as she communicates with her to find out what goes on in the house.
How do you stop a 15 yo telling her mum all sorts of thing that arent anything to do with her.(zorry different topic!)
Anyway the reason BM wanted to know was because she had stbsd18 birthday present and doesnt want to make the effort to actually see her other daughter on her 18th birthday. Really dont understandwhy she didnt txt Stbsd18 but there you go!

I hope for sd8 this wasnt a one off event as she loves swimming and BM is always putting obstacles in the way for her not to do it.