well so much for our little improvements with sd as she was back to her old ways this weekend....
nagging or demanding for things like clothes, food mainly sweets and junk, bossing her brothers around to the point of the boys snapping at her which does not help the environment in the home, she also wouldn't speak properly to any of us just would mumble responces or wouldn't reply at all, was bursting into tears at every possible moment when she didn't get what she wanted or was asked to do things like packing up the play room or her own room. sd also didn't want to join in the fun at her cousins 5th birthday party just wanted her goodies bag and the food/ cake.
our major issue this weekend was her comnparing our home to her mothers and mainly putting our home down. also she was completely rude to everyone by pushy in front to get things, ignoring everyone talking to her, not joining in with any planned activities this weekend. i feel so bad as i thought we had made progress with her over the last few months only to have it go backwards now. i am so very annoyed at this childs disregard for others and her negativity towards my family and household. she had even been kicking the dog who is a ten week old miniture fox terrior only as small as your hand she also locked him in a room so her brothers couldn't play with him.

anyway evil sd aside now onto the evil bm yet again... well after a not so nice weekend with sd bm arrived 10-15 mins late and didn't speak to hubby went to just grab sd and go but as it is hubby's birthday tuesday we have access to sd for that day however as it is a school day hubby stated that he would pick sd up from school and bm could retreave her at 7pm bm said not from school you can get her from my house at 3.30 so hubby said okay.
i think she may have learned from last time...

hubby said she was completely cold and wouldn't let sd talk at all and then just left after the arrangements where made...

this woman drives me nuts but hopefully she will learn that we mean business and not to stuff any more. we can hope can't we...
my mother feels that sd is the way she is due to things her bm orders her to do, but i feel sd is of an age now where she can be responsible for her actions and we can't be making excuses any more...