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prozac_nation's picture

BM text yesterday and told SO that he needed to take the skids for the night [a day after they went home]. He didn't reply to her and she never said anything else so obviously it wasn't that important. So she texts today at 9am telling him he needs to take the kids. Again at 10 and again at 11. He tells her no and that he has to work and she goes freakin ballistic calling me all kinds of names because I won't watch them and calling him worthless, a horrible father, the list goes on.
She even said that this was his weekend to have them! Um, no it's not. They JUST went home and we get them EOW. What were you too drunk to realize where your kids were this weekend?

She also told him that he's 'with a whore that we both know is worthless.' Bitch, I bet you can't even spell college education! I'm going to school to get my RN while you rot away living off of the government.
She even had the nerve to say I was looking 'rough'. That's just hysterical. This woman is 32 with wrinkles and leather-like skin. She is crackhead skinny, has frizzy nasty hair with beady, squinty eyes, and snaggle teeth. I am a great deal younger than her and lets just say all of SO's friends and family say he ' really upgraded'. I have put on a couple pounds since I had a baby 6 months ago and haven't lost all the weight yet. [Before I got pregnant I was 120 and 5'8.]

She never even gave a reason as to why he should have to take them. I already know the reason. She got used to living next to SIL and the kids going over there EVERYDAY. Now she's living with her mother who I'm sure doesn't want to watch them while BM goes out and does whatever with whoever she's screwing that day. She doesn't even want them. She changed it to "you need to take them tonight." to " you need to take them until the 16th when school starts." in the middle of asking him to take them for the night. She was even going to let them move in a couple weeks ago until she found out that meant giving up child support. UHG I just HATE this woman. So glad for this site.

Does anyone else deal with a BM that calls you every name in the book? Does she make up horrible rumors about you? And how do you deal with it? I'm trying so hard not to just smack the crap out of her.

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prozac_nation's picture

Exactly! She even went around saying that I was beating them [To be clear I've never put my hands on them] and that I'd never see them again but she still gets oh so mad and I'm so worthless when I won't babysit? Are you kidding me? :?

You are so lucky BM is non existent in your life!

newbiemommy's picture

HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA do we have the SAME BM!?!?!I abuse and neglect your kid but you throw a SHIT FIT over me not watching them!? What!?

newbiemommy's picture

I just LOOOOOOVVVVEEEE how BMs think THEIR CHILDREN are our responsibility. I watch my resident skid more that EITHER of her parents... (Yeah, I'm a tad bitter)
Oh and I bet her spelling in her txt are as priceless as her empty insults! I get quite the laugh out of BMs little rants!

prozac_nation's picture

Like I said she can't even spell 'college education'. LOL

I used to be in your position and watched them whenever they came over. This went on for well over a year. I put a quick stop to it after SD10 when home and told BM that I 'threw a phone at her.' and BM went around saying that I "punched her in the stomach". Yeah, neither of those things happened at all. So I told SO no more. Happier ever since. Wink

newbiemommy's picture

We are THERE! I've tried telling him but I'm about to sit him down and have a very serious "no more of this shit" talk with him. I can't imagine a life of not being an on call, everyday, live in sitter.