Help, 10yr old bs told me yesterday that he doesn't like h2b and doesn't want us to get married. He thinks it should just be me, him and his little brother forever. He doesn't want a step dad or step sister. I am floored I don't know what to think or how to deal with this. They get along great the romp and wrestle aroung the house, they play games and basketball together, he throws baseball or football with him, helps him with homework he even just helped him with a class project that his dad was suppose to do over the weekend and didn't it was due 2 days later dad said he just couldn't think of anything to do. H2b helps provide for him and his brother they never go with out they have everything they need and almost everything they want, except a PS3(he has a ps2 and a psp) a new 4 wheeler(he has a suzuki 80) and Dish network in his room(can't do that unless I put it in the other 2 kids rooms also and I can't afford that) I don't understand how daddy is the greatest and he doesn't like h2b and sometimes wishes he lived with daddy. Ok so we have rules and he has chores at home but if he does them he gets an allowence. Daddys house is all fun and games hell he is only there everyother weeekend and they don't do anything but sit in front of a video game or tv all weekend. Maybe he does like h2b but doesn't want dad to know because dad doesn't and he doesn't want to hurt his feelings. I also know that dad talks bad about me and h2b in front of bs making us look bad. I don't say anything about ex in front of bs he will find out on his own how his dad is (I hope)
H2b and I were going to elope in the next month and now I don't know what to do???????
Any comments or opinons would be greatly appreciated
Crys