How can I be around her
I've been at my grandmother's because I'm so humiliated and frustrated I don't want to be around SD14. Looking at my personal pictures and telling BM about them and who knows what else. I just can't be around her. I slept in my grandmother's bed last night and it was the first time I've felt peaceful in a while but I know I can't hide out here. I was a bratty spoiled only child growing up but I was never down right disrespectful and self centered like SD14.
DH says he grounded SD14. I don't think she cares because she stays grounded but keeps pulling more stunts. I hope she will grow up and apologize to me one day.
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So hiding teaches her what?
So hiding teaches her what? You are scared of her.
You need to talk to her. You need to tell her she is a sneak and a snitch. She had no right looking at her father's pictures and she certainly had no right to blab to her mother. And if she is concerned about how you know remind her how her mother cannot keep a damned secret to save herself. And THEN tell her that she thinks she is funny but some day when she least suspects it Mrs Karma will rise up and she will be humiliated and embarrassed far more than you ever will be. And you are proud of your body and she would be so lucky to have such an adoring husband when she is older.
Cut to the chase. Call it for what it is. Leave your humiliation out of it because this only feeds the monster.
Are you sure BM knows about
Are you sure BM knows about the pictures?
Didn't you post at one point about your SD walking into your bedroom without knocking when you were in bed? So its possible a comment was passed from kid to mother about how pale you are etc.
1) Never leave pictures anywhere kids can get their hands on them.
2) Getting even is always fun:
If the skid did share your pictures: share hers. All the embarrassing ones. Root through your DH's old pictures and find the ones with food smeared everywhere, the ones where she played in the contents of her diaper, naked baby on the changing table ... etc etc.
Blow those suckers up poster size and hang them all over the house, right when she is expecting friends over!