Im new here but i need advice, ive been married to my husband for 16 years and his adult daughter who always disrespects me and acts like im not there whenever she comes to our home. Anyways well shes pregnant by a guy she dated two weeks and now she wants to come live with us well when we bought our house i had a long discussion with my husband regarding that this is our house and i was not willing to use my inheritence money as a down payment if his kids where going to be moving in(we have seperate accounts because he has always supprted his adult step kids and i got fed up six years ago so i got my own account so i wouldnt be supporting them anymore) well this morning he says do you want to go for a drive wiith me i said where he said to move my daughter cause she needs to move out of boyfriends. I said nope i wasnt going and now im pissed and dont know what to do because i cant live with her i know i cant. So please tell me what i need to do. Oh and he has nothing no retirement nothing because he lost a job after 12 years abd spent it all on him and his daughters. If i leave im afraid he will get half of mine