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OT--In laws Coming to visit

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HOLY PANIC BUTTON--

I just found out that my MIL, who I have never met. AND a SIL, who I have also never met, are going to be at my house on Sunday to stay the night as they travel from Nebraska to Florida.

I will not be home at all on Saturday as I am working all day long and have a social engagement on Saturday night. My DH is a horrible housekeeper. My SS16 is a slob. I haven't planned anything to cook. I don't know where they are going to sleep. 

KILL ME NOW.

Evil Incarnate and I Am Tired

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Excuse me for just a second while I scream.

THAT MUTHER. BLANKING STUPID SEE YOU NEXT TUESDAY OF A BIO MOTHER AND WASTE OF HUMAN DNA CAN SUCK ROCKS!

A couple blogs ago, I mentioned that she couldn't come see SS16 because whatever lame reason she gave this time. She didn't get a settlement; she didn't win the lottery; she broke up with flavor of the week; she screwed up finances again; whatever it was. She decided she wasn't moving to Florida to be closer to jail-bird older son (Not DH's) so she wouldnt' be visiting SS16.

Stan Lee has Passed/ SS16 devastated

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Stan Lee, the Marvel Comics genius and real-life Superhero has passed. He was 95. 

He was my SS16's hero. D did numerous school reports on Stan Lee over the years, even portraying him as a Wax Museum figure once. SS16 is devastated and is mourning. But we are working through it. 

On facebook when DH posted about Stan Lee's death; up pops BM...'Has anyone told D?"

Listen, Woman....you have broken his heart...don't act like you care over THIS! I got my son's grief. You go play house or whatever it is you do every day. Leave us alone.

Mother's Day sucks

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Starting Two weeks ago; I reminded DH that he needed to pick up a card for SS16 to mail to his BioMom for Mother's Day.  I reminded him several times. At least every other day.

Yesterday...I reminded him again as that was the last possible day to send it out for it to get there on time.

I got yelled at; because DH can't remember shit. Yes, part of it is because of his MS. Most of it is because it is not something he cares about; so he doesn't care to remember.

He sets SUCH a good example for SS16.

Disengage? ME? Really? No....I've been raising this boy. Not anymore.

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The straw that broke the camel's back.

SS15 who will be 16 this coming week has the maturity of a 10 year old; the hormonal temperment of a teenager; and the difficulties that come with an Aspberger's Syndrome kiddo. He has spent this entire school year Fing around and is failing several subjects. I made it clear, that I am not paying for another year of private school (and the school he is going to is wonderful...he just doesn't give a flying flip and doesn't do a damn thing in class anymore) if this is his attitude.

His father, my DH, is furious with me. 

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School is about to begin! HALLELULIA....OH FARTS

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SS15 is going into the 8th grade this year (He is behind socially and scholastically due to his autism and adhd) We are looking forward to another year of positive growth. In the past two years he has made leaps and bounds of progress; of which I am really very proud.

However, He is 15. It is time he started thinking about growing up a little bit more.

Seeing the Man He Might Become

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I take a lot of photos of my SS15. A LOT of photos. He is a whirling tornado of activity, between his autism and ADHD. So many of them are blurred.

There are occassional moments when he is still. In those moments, the cats seek him out like a magnet. FaceCake is DH's cat. SS15 is her secondary person. But more and more she is giving him more and more loving's like this moment of making biscuits on his face (that's how she got her name).

OT Covering the Smell of a Smoker with Perfume

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Which is worse?

The obvious odor of a smoker?

Or

Covering the odor of a smoker with perfume?

We have a woman at work who thinks that buy using and reapplying perfume she is covering the fact that she is a heavy smoker. Sure, you can't smell the cigarettes on her; but GOOD GRAVY MARIE! She smells like a French Whore house. I can smell her coming down the hall. And her aroma remains long after she leaves.

The Sky is Blue....Actually it's Cyan...My Foot itches....that's your Toe

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I don't want to go to jail. I don't want to go to jail. I don't want to go to jail. I don't want to go to jail. I don't want to go to jail.

If SS15 doesn't stop automatically correcting or arguing with every bloody thing I say, I will be going to jail. He is becoming a mansplainer. AND I don't know where he gets it from. It is driving me NUTS. It is disrespectful; frustrating; and I swear, I am going to kill him.

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