Im just so tired of it all
Didnt have time to post about it, but we got a call from ss math teacher last Monday. Hds been acting z fool kn class and decided to take it to the next level. He was thrown out of class for being out of control and was caught trying to steal classroom supplies. Dh finally got mad enough to deal with it. Ss had his ass spanked and lost all electronics.
Several times over the past week I suspected he wax watching TV, but I didnt say anything. Thats dhs job to police him. If he wantz to let his sneaky kid keep his door closed and take him zt his word that hes reading, thats on him.
Then came Friday. I left the same time as dh to take my boys to preschool. I bet home and ss has left for school. I got to put on the TV in thd living room to watch the news. The TV is now on hdmi3 (ps3 input) instead of hdmi1 (cable input) and thd ps3 is now on and in the downloaded games section. I know for sure it was on the cable input when I left because I had the westher on to see if the boys needed a hoodie right before we walked out the door.
So I text dh and ask if he went back inside after I left to play video games. He wrote back no, why. So I tell him. Now, ss is not allowed to touch dh's ps3 even when hes not in trouble, so its an even bigger slap in the face that he does this while on punishment.
What does dh do? Ask hi on the phone if he was playing the ps3 before school. Ss says no. And thats the end of it. No mention of it again. I guess the house ghost must have been playing, since it wasny ss and he was the only one home.
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And unbeknownst to me,
And unbeknownst to me, stepmil has arraigned to take ss for the weekend. So I get a text that she is on her way to get him. This is the third weekend in a row that he is punished for bad behavior in school, and he goes off to a weekend of fun and spoiling at grandmas. Its already arranged that he will go next weekend too. Skipping out on all consiquences of his actions yet again.
On one handtbis pisses me off. But on the other I am just relieved to get the weekend away from him. I love having Friday and Saturday with just me and my boys. Then we get dh to ourselved all Sunday for a relaxing familu day witbout ha,ing to deal with ss's bullcrap. Im ashamed to admit it, but it makds me happy that the perception my boys are getting is that ss isnt really a part of the family. I like that theres that seperation and distance between them, less chance that my boys will try to emulate him and end up on this same path.
On Saturday dh mentions that he spoke to bis mom and sd is also having serious behavior problems in school. He started to elaborate, but caught himself and said oh I forgot, you dont care.
And once again ss didnt do anything with his dirty clothes thos weekend. He had a whole basket that dh didnt take to be cleaned last week (there was just too much to take) and now another week on top of that. Dh said he would do it today.....but that seems u likely tk me. More likely is that it will sit to accumulate another week and he will have a pile almostas big as before by next weekend.
I am just so worn out and tired of it all.