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over reaction!?

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Submitted by Paranoid Sm on Thu, 01/10/2013 - 11:10am

I can't seem to shake the idea of my boyfriend talking to the other sex. No clue how to handle it and i know it's not fair. I don't talk to the opposite sex but he thinks everyone is into me or just wants to have their way with me so i respect him to just not do it. He talks to BM which i hate but its necessary to do for the child's sake communication is key to make sure she is taking care of but i really don't need her I still love you crap let me dress all nice when you drop of our daughter. Girl friends are okay to have right for guys in a relationship?

bm/bd day presents, should he or she get them one?

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Submitted by Paranoid Sm on Thu, 01/10/2013 - 8:32am

Had a talk with my boyfriend yesterday about what he wants to do for mothers day for the bm. I didn't really like where it was going, why does he have to get her a gift is that something everyone keeps doing if they have kids with them? i get what the day is about, but its like he is still stuck on making her happy. His answer to me to why he wants to get her something is to ensure he gets something from his kid for fathers day. Like i wouldn't put the extra effort into that. So over reaction or understandable?

Good Points Ladies.

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Submitted by Paranoid Sm on Wed, 01/09/2013 - 9:04pm

You guys have good arguments. Though he tells me he loves me all the time and says he hates her and would never o back to her, so i think that's my problem. He has told me this over and over i just can't seem to believe him. He watches my daughter when im at work after he gets off of work and he helps pay for things that i could never afford. It has been awhile since he has picked her drunk ass up but idk if he just said no or she just doesn't ask anymore and if that's the case will he if she starts again. He says he loves our family and doesn't want to break it up.

Paranoid and confused. What to do, how to handle?

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Submitted by Paranoid Sm on Wed, 01/09/2013 - 3:55pm

I am 22 with my own child of age 4. Her dad isn't around anymore so she is going through separation issues on top of dealing with a new sister (my sd). She is 2 years of age and doesn't listen worth a damn, her father (my boyfriend) doesn't want to get onto her because he doesn't want to be the bad guy (weekend Dad)but that makes me the bad guy because i don't stand for that. If my kid can't do it then i'll be damned if she(sd) can get away with it.I Hate dealing with the bio. mom she keeps telling my boyfriend that she still loves him and she wants her family that she never started back.