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ANYONE HAVE A BM WHO DOES EVERTHING YOU DO????

pafreema's picture

DOES ANYONE HAVE A BM WHO TRIES TO DO EVERYTHING YOU DO????

FOR EXAMPLE 1, I GET A JOB IN HEALTHCARE AND NEXT THING I KNOW SHE GOES TO GET ONE.

FOR EXAMPLE 2, I GOT A MYSPACE ACCOUNT. 2 MOS LATER SHE HAS TO GET ONE.

OMG, IT GETS ON MY NERVES TO HAVE A FOLLOWER. I FEEL LIKE I CAN NOT HAVE A LIFE THAT IS MY OWN. IT'S LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS TRYING TO COMPETE WITH ME AND MY EVERY MOVE I MAKE.

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firefly's picture

It's almost funny how they act so stupid

You may say I'm a dreamer but I'm not the only one....

Chele's picture

when we lived in the same town a few years back, she would try to copy alot of things I did. Some of them were pretty silly,like trying to look like me, but a few of the things she did were just stupid. When DH & I got married, 4 months later BM and her live in , on again off again BF got married (they divorced a year later, after we moved away.) When our baby was born, BM who's tied, and can't have anymore babies (thank god!) went right out and bought a new puppy, that she called "baby" :? I'm so glad we live far away from eachother, there is no telling what she would be up to now. ~ 'Big girls don't cry"~ Fergie

Amazed's picture

if she does what I do or not. We have very little contact with each other so she really knows nothing about me other than what snowshyte tells her. I do know that she started dressing better since I've been in the picture...she used to wear "mom jeans" and now she has migrated over to the normal jeans that are in style now. I'm pretty sure her shoes are still shit though. It amazes me what that woman puts on her feet,ugh!
If she's copying you...that's the highest form of flattery. I'd take it as a good thing, obviously this woman has no sense of self so she's emulating a person she secretly admires, YOU.

The thing that impresses me most about America is the way parents obey their children. ~Edward, Duke of Windsor, Look, 5 March 1957

bookgirl's picture

I know exactly how you feel! When I got pregnant she turned up pregnant a few months later. After DH & I got engaged SKs told us that her BF was going to be there step dad (although it still hasn't happened), I said I wanted a Trail Blazer I front of SKs & she gets one, now, I got a yorkie & it turns out she just got a dog. Flattering? Maybe a little bit mostly annoying. Luckily I don't think she'll turn up as a librarian, DH & I remain certain that she doesn't know how to read. ~Bookgirl~

pafreema's picture

It's nice to know someone else knows how I feel!

Yeah, it's flattering. But, also kind annoying and erie at the same time

PnutButta's picture

The BM who said that she would never wear heels is now wearing them (well, trying too. Ever seen a sasquatch in heels?? *shudder*). She now parents like me, straightened her hair like mine, etc....

Now I feel like I have to change my look...I don't want people thinking I'm anything like her.

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." ~Robert Frost

pafreema's picture

What is it with these freaky BMOTHERS????

Why can't they just be themselve instead of trying instead trying to be someone they are not!

EmmaGirl's picture

My BM is like that.

1. When I started blogging, she also started her own blog

2. When I joined Facebook, she also joined Facebook

3. When I used DH"s surname, she also used her husband's surname (but when she was married to DH for 14 years, she never changed her surname)

4. When I started filming my son's and post the videos online, she also bought a video cam and started filiming

5. When DH and I started living together, she also immediately found a bf and lived with him

6. When DH and I married, she also got married (although she said she didn't believe in marriage anymore!)

7. When DH and I traveled, she also booked trips to Europe

8. When DH posted both our photos as his Facebook profile on Facebook, she also posted both their pics on Facebook.

9. She saw me wearing a Louis Vuitton purse and then the next time I saw her, she was carrying an LV purse! And I know she was NEVER an LV girl! [GOSH, FREAK-O!]

10. She always thinks that their lifestyle is better than ours -- she would tell everyone that. But nobody's asking reallY!

Tell me girls if these are mere coincidences!

BOTTOM LINE: SHE IS ONE SUPER INSECURE BIATCH!

pafreema's picture

And does it show that are so insecure!

Mrs Katch 22's picture

I have too many to post...but

1) we got a new truck, a few months later, BM bought the same truck in a different color
2) we took SD to place X, Y, and Z. BM also takes SD to those new places.
3) we had a baby - broke the news to her on xmas, LOL. "merry xmas biatch!" Wink six months later, she gets pregnant.

I, too didn't understand this...but it's all flattery. She wants what she could of had.

pafreema's picture

What BM will try just to be you! I can not help but laugh at how stupid BM looks trying to be someone she's NOT.

When DH and I got pregnant, it just killed the ex-witch b/c she could not have anymore kids! It killed her to know I was pregnant with her ex-husband's baby....