I am not going to make it until the end of the school year...
As many of you know I am planning on moving out and getting divorced. Last night AHH blew up and was cussing at my kids. SS got all up in the middle of it. It was so out of control. I told him to leave my kids alone and left the house. They were gone when we got back and I was asleep already when he came home with SS. We haven't talked yet. I didn't even wake SS up before I left today. I just got me and my bios out of there.
I am SOOOOO over it. I am not going to make it until the end of the school year. I don't know what I am going to do. I have court with their BD in less than 3 weeks, IF I can make it until then I think I may move in with my mom until I find a place for me and my kids. I just don't know what else to do. I contacted 4 properties today. Hopefully something will come through...
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Can you move in with your mom
Can you move in with your mom now?
I could. My problem is in
I could. My problem is in school zones. My mom is one county over and about 20 minutes away. It just puts that much more time on my 45 minute commute already. My poor kids wake up at 530am as it is.... The county I want to move back to is the best thing I can do for my kids though. Better schools, closer to their dad, closer to my family... I was just planning on waiting until school let out.
No, my kids are 6 and 8. They
No, my kids are 6 and 8. They were crying. It breaks my heart. They would love going to my mom's. It is just the additional burden on me for travel and not knowing how my ex would react to it. I have to deal with two crazy husbands... Lord, I have terrible taste in men!!!
When does school end for your
When does school end for your kids? If it's May -early June, then you all only have to deal with the drive for a few weeks.
The drive and early wake up time is a million times better than having them deal with your husband again.
If your ex tries to use it his against you, he will look like an ass. You're moving to protect your kids, not because you're an unstable person making a series of poor choices.
What on earth happened to
What on earth happened to cause all of this, this time? Cussing at my kids would be a deal breaker for me. I would live in a hotel before lettingthem be subjected to that AHH anymore.
What is up with the housing market in your area? Why is it so hard to find a place to stay?
My DD wanted to get her
My DD wanted to get her Kindle out of his truck. She bumped the door of his truck into my car which lead to him screaming that he is "FUCKING SICK OF ALL OF YOU!!" and it only went down hill from there....
The school zone we are currently in is very rural and there just aren't many places to rent in general. The one's I can afford on my own lessens the pool even more. Moving back to the other county (where I grew up and where my parents are) is even more expensive and so the places I can afford are few and far between and go quick because of that!
I admire your restraint. I
I admire your restraint. I would've gone into attack mode and ripped your H's throat and SS's out with my teeth. And I'm not exaggerating. I lived with an emotionally and physically abusive spouse (exh) and swore I would never tolerate it again. The final straw for me was when my children and I were cowering in a closet calling 911 because he was threatening to kill us all (kids were 16 mos and 4). Do whatever you have to do to get out of there pronto!