SS17 calld DH tonight and told him he did not want to visit this weekend The he told DH he was getting too old to visit EOW If you read my previous blog about the counselor and the bed room, seems like counselor bluffed. DH never replied back, rooms did not change, and now SS17 does not want to stay overnight HOORAY.

DH could not talk in detail at the time, but preliminary talks are DH will visit about once a month to go for dinner. I asked DH if he was sad, and he said no. He knows SS17 is older now, and he really does not do anything when he is at our house. Just sits around and watches what projects DH is doing.

I'm hesistant to believe this will stick for 2 reasons: 1. BM loves her weekends and 2. SS17 has been trying for a while to get DH to take him out to fun places on the weekends. I'm thinking this "going out to dinner" may escalate to bigger places...

But I think there may actually be a light at the end of this disaster...