She is never gonna stop, She made her myspace public to get him to read it.

Here is what her latest blog is......

Keep in mind I wrote these a while back! My therapist told me friday that if I didn't let you go that they would only allow me to talk about you in 3 more session then make me leave yet another program. For some reason, for the past few yrs of therapy, I've been let go or sent on to another therapist or another group because everyone says our relationship was abusive and that it need'd to end, everyone from the catholic church to what 4 therapist have now told me that I shouldn't love you. That I should move on. That you don't and never loved me, that my life is better with out you, and yet none of them can tell me how to get you out of my mind and my heart, they want to tell me I should but they can't remove you from either. I can't remove you from either. Your like a stain that I keep scrubbing until my knuckles are bleeding. Whatever it is or was or has happen doesn't change the fact that I love you, I always have and I always will. Divorced separated you living with someone else me having someone live with me still doesn't get you out of my heart or mind. I wake up thinking of you I go to sleep thinking of you I dream about you. You were my one. My only. My world. And yet no matter how bad you treated me no matter how much you've hurt me. I can't get you out of my heart. Please help me, please give me some closure so I can move on and stop this insanity. Please let go of my heart. Let it go! Please I'm begging you! I just want to be happy. I want to move on and find someone whom loves me and make me happy, I want you to find that as well, I've been told you have that and I deserve it too, I've been miserable for years now, please let me be.. Let go..

Hello??? anyone here think 4 therapist may be right???? and she is an obsessive nutburger??
And she is the one who lives with her BF and has since the day SHE left HIM. Me and BF do not live together. and they have been apart for 1 year and 4 months. GOD I would love to reply to this blog, but I just ignore and as far as she knows I dont read it and dont even know it exist. But apparently she thinks he reads it, cuz it is written to him (my BF)

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This is very frustrating, I

This is very frustrating, I can see that. She wants him back, for sure. Try to not respond to her blog.... she is very immature to write it so publicly anyway.

You have a rough road to hoe here.... I wish you the best of luck.

WOW! She and and BM could be

WOW! She and and BM could be best friends. She's the kind of crazy only MEDS can help. She hates her life because SHE F*cked up and now YOU have what she wants. She's a nut job!

^^^mmmmm hmmmm^^^^

OMG! if he even told her that

OMG! if he even told her that she would NEVER move on......
He doesnt every reply to her text, or answer her calls, he lets them go to vm.
and Apparently all the therapy in the world wont make her get it. According to that letter, 4 therapist have already dropped her cuz she refuses to move on.
I would think her BF would get really tired of it. He has to know and read this crap, he has a myspace too and has actually commented recently and told her to "get over it already".

I agree, she does need meds

I agree, she does need meds or shock therapy!
The thing is is that BF is planning on stopping by the youngest SDs birthday party this weekend "just to say Happy Birthday and drop off cards" And I think BM will make it all about her and how he came to see her and I really dont know how to tell him that I dont think its a good idea.

oh no, she is talking to her

oh no, she is talking to her ex which is my BF

I don't agree that her

I don't agree that her actions indicate abuse. Our BM claims my DH was abusive, but she goes back & forth on it depending on how it suits her. I have been a victim of abuse in a couple of past relationships & even with that history, not one time in 10 years have I EVER felt intimidated or scared of my DH.

On the contrary, I have witnessed BM being controlling & manipulative & mentally abusive toward myself, my DH, & their children.

I think you're being quick to judge. Some people really are just crazy & obsessive.

Oh yea, this is so her ^^^

"And another clue, think

"And another clue, think about what he told you about their breakup. He blamed everything on her, didn't he? Think about the things he says when he talks about her. He calls her stupid and all other kinds of names, doesn't he? He has you thinking how lucky you are that she left him to the point that you have not once wondered WHY she left him."
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This is where I felt you were being judgemental. To assume that he blamed everything on the ex & to assume that he calls her stupid & all kinds of names, & to assume that the OP has never wondered WHY she left him, in my opinion is being judgemental.

Am I not entitled to disagree with what you post? That's what I stated I was doing, & then I made a point to state my reasons for disagreeing.

I'm not here to argue. Just stating my thoughts.

Ok, I get your point Sue, and

Ok, I get your point Sue, and I am not a stupid woman, He truly was the abused one in this situation and there was NEVER any PHysical abuse except by her to him. Throwing things at him and choking him etc. I have even seen text from her where she admitted to this.
But regardless, Here is another of her blogs describing what she considers abuse......
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The abuse has got to stop!
As grandparents you want to see and be and spend as much time with your grandchildren as possible however, what your doing to our girls is only hurting their relationship with there dad, see I'm the one who has to answer the question "how come daddy never takes us to our old home" how come when daddy has us we never get to spend anytime with him" how come he doesn't love us like he loves everyone else" how come were being dumped off on grandma" see you think that by keeping the girls for him your helping his relationship with them, but stop and think about it your hurting that relationship by covering for him, he needs to be told I'm sorry SON you will have to care for your children when its your visitation time, I know you keep them fridays and I have no problem with that, but the problem I'm having is ur now keeping them sat nite and sun. When will Son grow up and have to take care of, support and be there for his girls? When will he have to do what single parents all across this nation have to do, u babying Son and doing everything for him has not taught him what being a father really means, he has A GF she can run his shop on sat nites and sunday nites to give SON a chance to rebuild relationships with the daughters he brought into this world. However you've decided and got it in your head that you are their mother but your not you ask my girls whom their mother is, they will tell you its me, ask'em who their father is. And they are beginning to ask themselves that same question, so do what's right as a parent make your son do what's right as a parent. Before he loses all his girls.. Because right now they hate him. And SIL is mean and hurtful there is a reason god has given her no children what so ever at all.. She doesn't deserve them, until she learns compassion, forgiveness, and love she will have none. My daughters have been hurt by all of you enough, stop hurting them here's a pc of a text Oldest daughter sent to me... Read it read her words read the hurt, read that Dad doesn't care what his children got on their test only what a child whom isn't blood related to him got. (Daughter)i just cant stand it... all they do is judge and assume and pry and i cant stand it i just want to be normal and feel trusted and not like a convicted criminal (Me) I know its hard, daughter, I love you girls, and I wish I could make this easier at least try and make the best of ur time with ur dad.) (daughter)i cant do that... it takes all my effort not to do something drastic the twins were talking about their spelling test and saying they got 100s or something and he says to Grandpa "GFs daughter got a 90 because she mispelled a word" i cant put up with him at all mom ik you know wat i mean i will not pass sophmore year if this continues i can tell it is all just too much for me to handle if i have to deal with them.... So to that i say this, my girls are my world, I will not allow you to keep hurting them and I will do everything within my power to stop the abuse!
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So again I say, Nutburger!!!!
His parents only watch the kids while he is at work. She thinks he should not work while he has his kids and that I should do it for him!!!! I work all week, Sorry Wacjob, not my problem. She works all week and leaves the kids with her parents , But thinks he shouldnt???

Our BM does this, only she

Our BM does this, only she has no idea DH & I can see her FB posts. She dedicated Dido's "White Flag" video to him. I haven't told him. I wanted, so bad, to post a comment about how it's been 11 years. Time to let it go. But, I didn't want to give away my identity. It's sad that people waste years of their lives clinging to the past with everything in them. There really is only so much a therapist can do. At least they cut her free rather than stringing her out for the money. LOL! Until she's willing to let it go, no one can help her. I wouldn't give her blogs or updates any acknowledgement. I would recommend your BF not acknowledge her comments or reply to her comments on his profiles. If she knows she's reaching him, she'll continue with it. Not to say she won't continue with it if he ignores it, but at least she won't continue because she feels like she's got his attention.

Don't you wonder what BMs

Don't you wonder what BMs friends think of her pathetic-ness? Talk about playing the victim - to a T!

No kidding! I could be DYING

No kidding! I could be DYING inside missing an ex, but nothing on this Earth could make me post about it online for all to see. I've seen BM lose friends on her FB due to her "look at poor me" & "see how I'm suffering" posts. People feel bogged down by their own crap already. No one wants to have someone else's crap piled on top of it. How do people come to feel their problems are bigger & more important than anyone else's???

I do wonder, but I wonder why

I do wonder, but I wonder why they dont tell her how pathetic and ignorant and nutburgery she sounds..... I would sooo tell my girlfriend if she were doin this....

Definitely! I have cut ties

Definitely! I have cut ties with my own friends because they make everything all about them...ALL the time. You know...people get tired of hearing the same person whine & moan about the SAME crap ALL the time. If you're not willing to do something for yourself, you can wallow by yourself.

^^^^^^LIKE^^^^^

THats what Im saying, It is

THats what Im saying, It is Near zero! Yet she just wont stop. ... I think the only thing that would ever stop her is for him to be dead. And even then she would keep goin to anyone who would pat her shoulder and say " o poor you"
Cuz she has a live in BF, who she was cheating on BD with for a year before she even left BD.
So that doesnt seem to phase her. She seems to think she can make all the rules and because she "gave birth to his children" she is entitled to EVERYTHING for ever....
I dunno, I am just guessing... cuz I cant for the life of me understand any of this......

How old are your skids? Do

How old are your skids? Do they have access to read her comments? If so, that could probably be dealt with in court. Those things are NOT appropriate for her to put out there for their children to have access to.

The two oldest ones 16 and 12

The two oldest ones 16 and 12 both girls are her friends on myspace and the two I posted here are mild compared to some others she has posted.

She also posted a Birthday letter to the 16 yo yesterday which is more about her and her feelings and BDs reaction to finding out the news of her pregnancy with her as they were young and unmarried at the time. I would think a birthday letter to your 16 yo would be about them and how wonderful they are.....not about you.......

Her comments are bound to be

Her comments are bound to be a drain on their kids. You may be able to get a letter from a lawyer asking her to refrain from posting such things, & let her know that if it continues, you'll take it before a judge. It isn't healthy for the kids to read things like that.

I'd file this under those

I'd file this under those type of people that don't want someone - they just don't want anyone else to have him!!

^^^^meeee toooo

Ditto! That's BM over

Ditto! That's BM over here...I dont want you, don't love you but I also don't want anyone else to love you or have you!!! Very sad... she can't move on so she instead has to make everyones life miserable and impossible.

Why read it? OK I would print

Why read it? OK I would print a copy and file it for future reference.

Then continue business as usual in your home. Is ANYTHING she raving about have a grain of salt about it? Is anything remotely slightly true? Are his daughters unhappy at all with ANYTHING at your place?

Look into your heart and see if there is anything that could be tweaked to make things run more smoothly. If not (and I bet there isn't anything in need of tweaking) IGNORE THE CRAZY COW!

I saw the "As The World Turns" has finished. I think she is taking up the space the soap opera occupied in the world. BAER!

I printed it for him. Thats

I printed it for him. Thats the only reason I get on there is to get stuff for him, she really does alienate the kids from him. Like I said, That is one of the mild blogs. She post some dooozies for her girls and family and friends to read. He could have had custody of the girls more than once, but insist on taking the "high road" So I just read and document blogs, text, whatever for amunition later if need be.
His girls dont ever come to my home. And I dont go to his when they are there. We have outings to parks and zoos and museums and such with all of us, but that is the extent of it.
It really is BM filling their heads full of crap.