ok now she is just being a PERSISTENT Beeotch
So BF who I dont get to spend near as much time with as I would like due to our conflicting work schedules asked me to come to his 15yo daughters soccer game this evening. I of course jumped on it to spend some time with him. We rode our bikes (Harleys) to the school watched the game and afterwards when he tried to talk to his daughter she said "shut up cant you see i am on the phone?" (i will get back to that in a moment)
Then we sat on our bikes because she didnt seem to have a ride and waited to make sure she got picked up. Eventually Wackjobs BF came and got her.
We left, got some dinner and he went back to work and I went home to my kids...
We Surmised Wackjob musta been at her shrinks becuz he heard nothing from her for 3 hours. But then at 9 pm he gets a text saying "there was no reason for her to be there, she has no children at that school and BD15 did not invite her, I am calling the police and telling them she is stalking our daughter" a few min later she sends "BD15 called my BF to come get her" and then another that said "your bringing her there just shows you want to continue to hurt our girls"
He(my bf) answered " why would you send your drug dealer to pick up BD15? I am concerned"
**sidenote** when he first found out about her BF they were still married and she said he was her drug dealer and that is why she was wacky but then she went to therapy and she is allllll better now, She has also said he was gay. But then she post on her myspace about their relationship and bla bla bla **end sidenote**
Anyway as for the "shut up" comment, I woulda stuck my foot so far up my kids rear end he woulda had to move my big toe outa the way to speak. And I told BF that. I dont understand his allowing his kids to speak to him this way just cuz Wackjob says they are hurting and he is the cause of it because he has me......
I used to think I could never write off my kids,,, but I hafta say, If my kids at that age would have treated me like that and just blindly believe my ex on everything then I prolly would hafta say 'seee yaaa' come back when you can act human.
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If she does follow thru with
If she does follow thru with a protective order (which she has done before and it got dismissed) Then there are several witnesses who know I wasnt by myself. Seriously. what a dumb A$$. I dont think theres anything mentally wrong with her. I just personally think she is a mean, vindictive, vicious, woman who feel entitled to have everything handed to her because she "gave birth to thier daughters".........
these men just dont freaking
these men just dont freaking get it.....and these women are crazy.........i would die if his daughter spoke that way in front of me and i would have jerked a knot in her as well......the drama is unreal and the exwives thrive on this stuff....
Oh I know!! of course
Oh I know!! of course afterwards, he did the whole "I shoulda said this and that" thing....
Exactly! thats what I dont
Exactly! thats what I dont get. And I told BF the same thing. We just need to live our lives as she does and blow off her dumb sh!t. Keep records and maybe eventually get those poor brainwashed girls away from her. He really is a great dad. Wackjob just thinks he owes her his soul for ever for having his kids. I am kinda glad I dont understand her behavior, cuz if I did then I would hafta wonder if I wasnt a wackjob too.....
Yeah, I would've put my foot
Yeah, I would've put my foot right up there too then I would've snatched the phone out of her hand and kept it until she learned some respect. See BM ok's the disrespect so if your BF doesn't put her BD in her place it's just gonna get worse. He should try and sit her down (which will be hard) and say look, you don't disrespect me, my GF or anyone else for that matter and b/c me and your mom fight doesn't mean you get to be like you are and let you have one more time to do what you did today and your gonna see some nice parenting....OK PUMPKIN (big smile)
As for the BM, you just have to TRY hard to ignore her. It's soooooooo hard, but it will start to eat at you b/c it's all drama and BF thrives off of it, especially when the BD gets mad. So just keep doing what your doing and don't let it come btwn you, but your BF needs to stand up and take charge of BD and put BM in her place. It will still be the same way, but at least he stood up for himself and basically is saying that you and him aren't gonna play her games so go ahead and call the cops so we can all have a convo. Then tell her "while we are at it, we can have your BF looked into also." So I will be outside waiting
Don't play her games b/c that is all they do and will do for the next so many years.
Yeah, that was one of his "I
Yeah, that was one of his "I shoulda done's" (grabbing the phone and telling the caller that BD is conversing with her father now good bye.
I know! I keep telling him he needs to have a sit down with BD even his mom and sister are telling him too. I really dont know why he wont.
As for the BM I really am trying to ignore her and just be amused by her 'antics' but seems to me that this is just her and it will go on forever so I am just gonna deal with the protective orders and such as they come (if they even do)
Men always prolong stuff b/c
Men always prolong stuff b/c they think it's going to go away on it's own or just so they don't have to deal with it. It gets worse after sitting on it so I don't get the reasoning of why wait when it comes to certain things. He needs to take the should've done's and do it def. next time. Almost like wait for it to happen then he should just go off.
You know what would've been better then only taking the phone, taking it, putting it on the ground and stommping on it...hehehe. That would've got her attention and it would've bought him some respect. She would be sooooooo mad, but at least after that she would know better the next time. A teens phone is their life.
Laughing at the BM's dumb stuff is what gets you through it b/c if not, you would strangle your BF. I used to get so mad at my DH for not doing anything right away b/c if you don't get it while it's hot, it dies down but is twice as bad the second time around b/c they got away with the first and they push their luck twice as much next time.
God if my SD spoke to my DH
God if my SD spoke to my DH like that she'd need to go to the hospital to get my foot surgically removed from her arse. What a disrespectful little cow!