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NBBM wasn't taking any chances with this Holiday.

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SO said he was going to send SGirls home Sunday night since Monday is an out of school day.
I was so happy! He and I were gonna get 1 nite of no kids. Mine or his.
Last time there was a Monday holiday he did that too. He had SG18 text NBBM to tell her they would be home on Sun nite so as not to have to get up early on their off day to head home because NBBM always insist her parenting time starts at 8 a.m. on Mondays. NBBM wouldnt answer the text even though she had been txting back n forth with SD13 literally minutes before. I kept telling SO that she doesnt want her brats there with her tearing up and nastying up her house either. Finally at 9 pm she answered and said that she handnt been home and thats why they couldnt come home but now she was home and would come get the stwins9.He just sent them all with sd18 at that point so as not to have BM show up. Um oldest is 18! AND SO has to leave the 13 and 14 and 2 9yos home on Sunday evenings while he and SD18 work. So what is the difference if they stay at his home alone or hers????
Anyway,
This time NBBM sent a text last nite at midnite to say that "you may keep the girls til Tuesday and take them to school since I got them last holiday" She COUNTS on the fact that SO wont communicate with her. SHe knows he will not reply.
So, looks like they will all be here trashing the place . I am going two counties away tomorrow and hanging with my sis. He can have his parenting time with them (NOT he will be at work) Which is why he doesnt care where they are he doesnt see them anyway. Then I can come home to a trashed house Sunday nite, Work all day Monday, PIck my BD8 up from her dads at 6pm like the CO says because we are both SANE and NORMAL adults and can and do communicate about our kid to each other.
And then I will get to clean up after the Nasties all nite on Monday and have to deal with them til Tuesday and then they will be back on FRIDAY ARRGGGHHHH!!!!
Gawd! it got worse and worse as I typed Sad I realized more and more Sad