I have found a place to move to, but it wont be ready for about 30 days.
skids have been here since last Thursday. She sent a text to DSO as to where did he want them dropped off on Thurs morn. He wasnt suppposed to receive them until Fri for spring break. But because he didnt reply(she knew he wouldnt, he hasnt in 3 years) she sent them to HIS moms .
He just left with them for an overnite holiday. (nuttin like rewarding skids for horrid behavior huh?)
So last nite he receives a text that says he can just keep the skids for the next 2 weeks because she got her gas turned off and doesnt get paid for 2 weeks. And "I know you will use this against me and take the girls away from me" and yak yak yak....
DSO was lying in bed with me reading to me all this as we were falling asleep. We were trying to figure out what was up cuz NBBM makes 50 grand a year AND gets govt assistance cause she has 7 kids. AND DSO pays her for all skids school tuition, lunch, books, shoes, uniforms, AND has them 3 days every week! So how on earth do you not pay your gas bill.
It was then that DSO had an "ah ha" moment and says, " ya know, NBBMs bfs kids are on spring break next week and I'd bet money that she is going on a vaca with them"
OMG! I think he is spot on.
I told him he should text her back and say 'no thankyou, the skids will be back to you on time we have plans'. OR ' I will pay your gas bill and send skids back on time'
Just to see what reaction he gets.
He wont do it.
He for some reason thinks this is gonna get him full custody, He is an idiot.
OH AND
DCS showed up this morning. I didnt hear them knock and DSO had left early to pick skids up from MIL , I was still sleeping as it was my day off.
So she calls DCS on us and then says they have to stay here ? WTF?
AND WHY CAN'T THE COPS, DCS, OR ANY OF THOSE FOLKS SEE THAT SHE IS A FREAKIN NUTBURGER????