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Should i stay or should i go?

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Submitted by Oldrosie on Tue, 06/14/2022 - 3:28am

This is it - this is the moment I feel strong enough and focussed enough to actually consider leaving. 

This is new. I feel like I have stuck around for all the wrong reasons. I always had this sense of duty, a sense that I owe it to my husband who lost his first wife, to the kids who thought I was going to be their new mom and I didnt want another failed marriage.

1st wedding anniversary

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Submitted by Oldrosie on Sat, 05/21/2022 - 6:11am

Today is my 1 at wedding anniversary. 

I can't help but this what the fuck am I doing here it's just a reminder that I've made bad life choices. 

I ended a relationship with my DD to bio dad who was lovely and we had a nice life without passion or romance but was steady 4 years ago. I over corrected the passion problem with a new partner who worshipped me and had to kids. I had romantic notions of blending the family and taking care of the kids as if my own. 

I've had it - would you take this assehole on vacation?

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Submitted by Oldrosie on Mon, 08/16/2021 - 4:56am

The asshole who stole over $1000 from us. Had everything banned including TV and phone. Decided for the last few nights to watch TV which he's not permitted to do because hes stolen money and food from the family. He's been waiting until we are asleep to watch TV. Which sounds minor but please remmeber her has taken so much from us and quite honestly TV is a previlage he does not deserve right now. 

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I live with a thief - SS stole $1400

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Submitted by Oldrosie on Thu, 08/05/2021 - 5:46am

Hi all, 

I don't what I'm looking for in this post. Maybe just to rant and off load. 

My SS doesn't care about anyone but himself - he has no concept of work, right and wrong or empathy for anyone else but himself. 

Last week we found out he had (stolen) bought $1400 worth of in app purchases in games. He disabled the child lock. He knows we dont have that sort of money - he didnt just do it by accident either. He did it to teach us a lesson or some sort of control when he had been told off for minor things in the house or if he had to do a chore. He admitted that. 

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How do I get SKs to move out when he is old enough?

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Submitted by Oldrosie on Mon, 02/22/2021 - 9:52am

Hi y'all

I have been fairly quiet the last few months - just trying to stay posistive. SKs are still the same but I tend to ignore them most of the time. Being in the same room as them makes my skin crawl. Sometimes its not their fault but I think alot of the damage has been done by their annoying habits and constant dramas. 

Does anyone else feel terrible for just not really like the SKs all that much?

Anyway, these SKs live with us 24/7 - I count down the days for them to grown up and move out. 

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