As mentioned before, SD16 wants to have nothing to do with her father, me and especially not her baby sister (my DD5 mos). She's stated loud and clear to CP that she doesn't want to see us, however now that she's found out from SDs13 & 19 that we're all going to the European country where my DH's mother lives, she all of a sudden cries to her sisters that we're so mean and how much ahe wants to see us and go on holiday with us. :sick:

Well, BM strikes again: she calls up my MIL and SIL and tells them how unfair and unreasonable we're being, and that poor darling SD16 wants so much to see them, but that we won't let her, MIL agrees with crazy, psycho biatch that "they" will help to reunite SD16 with her father and baby sister!!! WTF?!?!

So BM will send mini-her the SAME time we will be there!!!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

F*ck it! I will make some lame-ass excuse to have to work, and reschedule all our flights to 2 weeks later AND we won't stay at MIL's. Who the hell does she think she is adding fuel to an already sick situation? She and SIL are sooooo busy keeping DH kids in the victim role "poor children of divorce" bullshit, they don't realize how much they're adding to the damage that's already 9 years past!!!

Mind you, MIL is the person who confronted me 5 years ago with, "Why don't you want me to be friends with XW?" at a time when I had not even spoken to the BM wench! Where the F do these people get this???? (Duh, I know the answer to that already - BM's very own hysterical soap-opera, starring BM.)

Just needed to rant. Aaaaaaaaaargh!!!!!