And I let DH know tonight. When I left the house and DH with SD9 to pick up BS14 and BS12, it was blatantly obvious I was upset. Yes DH complains about his 20 min trip into town to pick up SD9 and doesn't even think about the fact that I drive 3 hours to get my kids. And I never complain. Not once. And as I'm leaving, DH and SD9 are eating the dinner I cooked with SD9's retainer sitting on the table (even though I've asked her a thousand times to put it in it's case and in the bathroom during dinner. Who wants to look at that crap while they eat?). Anyway, I get a text about an hour out of town from DH "what have I done this time?" Like I'm some nag. I responded with "I'm tired. I'm tired of always making myself the last priority but never being the priority of anyone else." His response had something to do with "You'd be better off with your ex." Wth? Men suck and that's the only response I have to that.