I've been a member for a while here but had to change my username cause DH and I got into an fight few weeks ago, I opened my big mouth and told him how the other stepparents on ST understand me but he doesn't. He came on here and was able to find out which posts were mine. Although he promised not to come back on here again, I'm taking precautions. This is the space I come to vent, I don't need him knowing every negative thoughts I have toward the ssons.