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The L Word

NotEasy525's picture

Submitted by NotEasy525 on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 12:55pm

Question stepparents...

Does Your SO still tell his ex-wife/ex-husband that they love them? And not as a oh I love you and want to be with you and make things work out between us again. But as a thank you for everything you do for our kids, "love ya" kinda thing? So in other words..not a meaningful "I love you" but a "luv" kind of love. Make sense at all? Lol. 

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Aniki-Moderator's picture

Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 1:17pm

No, nope, no way in Hades.

"Love ya" indicates affection. Anyone who is tossing the L word around with their recent ex is not anyone who should be in another relationship.

Harry's picture

Submitted by Harry on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 1:19pm

There a difference between a love you to family and friends.  And some one who you had sex with.  

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Submitted by moving_on_again on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 1:27pm

1. I would kill him. 

2. I am fairly certain they didn't say it when they were together. 

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Submitted by queensway on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 1:35pm

Never. If I heard him say that I would fall over dead. I agree with what moving on again  said.

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 1:42pm

Nope. Under no circumstances would SO say this. If he did, he would find himself looking for his balls in the trash can, where I put them after I cut them off. Even if SO and that psychopath actually got along, no way.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 3:19pm

Hell no! That's beyond inappropraite. If he still "luvs" her, maybe they ought to get back together.

DH would rather shave with a cheese grater and cook his head in a vat of boiling oil than say "luv ya" to SheBeast. Then dive into a pit of cobras.