I told DH that I am going to be moving out for a few days, weeks, or more. He is trying his best to assure me that he will change and put the marriage first. But we are to the point that the only conversation we have is about SD-17 and her pregnancy. I don't think I could have a discussion without her being brought up....in fact when I asked him what he wanted for the two of us (him and me) he told me he wanted his daughter to grow up and learn to take care of herself.....says it all don't it.

I am trying to remember the last time we had time alone. Since SD found out she is pregnant she has attached herself to us. She goes everywhere with us. SD has absolutely no friends now. The boy who got her pregnant would go anywhere with her. When I try to separate from her ....I get the pity speech from her or from DH.

I hate to say it but I don't think I have any emotions for DH anymore -- and I don't think he could do anything to change my mind. Sad