:? I need advice really bad. My boyfriend and I haven't been together long but have been living together for quite a few months now. We moved in together only a couple of months after we started dating. I know this seems fast and it was, there is no way that I can deny that. However, there were circumstances. He was living with his father at the time, who was loosing the house. I was living on my own and having to do cash advances on my credit card to make ends meet. We had both been through a lot, relationship wise and otherwise. When we went on our first date it was amazing.