Ran into BM at grocery store last night....
I ran into my BM last night at the grocery store with her DH and all 3 kids my two ss's and her daughter with her new dh. I had just goten off work and went to pick up a few things, I was standing in the middle of the cookie isle deciding between chocolate graham crackers or the honey ...(trying to give my son healthy snacks he'll eat) anyway.....I see them just as they turn on the isle ....
And I am frozen...all thoughts start running through my mind: take off before they see you, they already saw you and they will think you are running, what do I say? Do I act nice, or give her a look to kill? .....oh no !!!!!
BM approaching ...BM approaching :O }:) :? }:) :?
Then She gave me a quick look and said "hey girl just getting some shoppin done (without giving much eye contact)" and my ss's ran up to me and hugged and kissed me ...that felt great, like thier mom had now released her evil hold of thier mind about me ...
They always do it when they come visit, but I thought mabey it was because DH gave them a speech before they entered the house like "be nice to newmom" but it was delightful to see that they care about me on thier own 
But to tell the truth once they passed me up my heart was beating so fast, I felt dizzy like I was gonna pass out. I had squeezed my toes in my shoes so hard it was hard to walk away.
And for those who dont know, I never see BM....I havent seen her in at leaast a year....BUT the last time I had words with her, it was over that piture mess she sent my dh and I called and told her dh about it....and we had a text war....
Lord have mercy I need to find another store! But I like that one!
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But I had my makeup on and my
But I had my makeup on and my hair was gorgeous (it got that way during my pregnancies and stayed that way)
On the other hand, she had cut all of her hair off and was looking.....well not as hot as me! she wasnt godzilla, but I was cuter
WOW! Your BM: 1. talks to
WOW! Your BM:
1. talks to you??
2. is actually SEEN in a grocery store WITH THE SKIDS doing mundane things?
The Behemoth and her entire family give me hate stares and walk away.
GG and I have LITERALLY SEEN one of the Behemoth's aunties and her husband TURN AROUND IN A RESTAURANT PARKING LOT that they were going to eat at and LEAVE because we were in there!!!
I have never seen the Behemoth doing mundane, routine chores with the skids. She usually pawns them off on the Wookie (her mom) or others. I ran into the Wookie the other day at a grocery store. The Wookie is a six foot tall, over 300 lb "woman" usually dressed in black. She stopped other patrons from entering the store b/c of her girth and b/c she froze in her tracks to give me a very long, burning "hate stare" as I was going out of the store!!!!
I haven't seen the Behemoth in over two years!!! Woo Hoo!!
My heart would be beating
My heart would be beating fast too if I saw crazo in public...but she doesn't cook so all the shopping according to fsd11 is done at walgreens. The only place I would probably see her is at a restaurant.
But we live in different parts of town so the odds are pretty much against it.
My heart would beat fast wondering was scene she would make. I of course, have never engaged the woman in any discussion so I would just walk away and leave her there ranting, cussing, raving as she always does embarassing her children.
This is her only form of communication.
On my worst day I would still look better than this crazy woman.
This has happened to me (and
This has happened to me (and DH because we are usually together when it happens) SO many times. We live in a fairly small town, and within 5 miles of one another. So the grocery store is right between our two houses. DH used to make it a point to stop her so he could talk to SS if she had him, but now he ducks and hides. He doesn't even want to see her face. Can't blame him, I would be ashamed that I slept with that too!
The funniest time was when we were at The Pavillions. BM DOES NOT SHOP THERE. It is a super nice store that is generally overpriced. DH and I ran in to grab something real quick. We only buy our meat from there, because I can't bring myself to buy it from WalMart. I am strange like that. Anyways, we were in line and SS ran up to me and gave me a great big hug. BM wasn't anywhere in sight so DH asked "who are you with"? He said "mom, she is over there (pointing at the door) she saw your car outside when we drove through Burger King so we came in to say HI".
REALLY... creepy. 100 bucks says if I wasn't with DH she would have come up with SS. She hung back because I was there... and she seriously saw our car, parked, got out, came in and FOUND us. Stalk much??