I came home while DH is still at work and packed my things and baby's things. I got my brother to bring his truck and help me get baby's crib and changing table. I got all of the groceries I paid for all of my clothes and babies clothes and my electronic equipment.

I wrote DH a note explaining to him that the process of getting divorced has begun and that I will be moving out. The light/water bill and cable/internet bill are in my name and because I no longer will be occupying the residence I will be removing my name from them next month and it will be his responsibility to pay them. I love SS5 and 10 and I wish them all the best of luck in life and I will be here for them as much as I am allowed. He and I both know he will not be able to keep up his share of the mortgage so he has the option of helping me pay it off with a smaller share on his part and then selling it and splitting the profits or continuing to live there knowing he cannot afford to and screw both our credits. We will talk about all of this with our lawyers. I'm done fighting with him and I wish him and his kids the best and I hope he will be the best father he can be for their sake and BS's sake.

Baby and I will be staying in a friend's guest home until I get an apartment which won't be long maybe a week or two. I just want to be free no more games no more feeling like I'm in the eye of the storm and I feel like I am doing what is best for me and baby. I thank you all for your continued support.

I don't know WTF is wrong with DH I got an alert on my phone that DH tweeted " Wow my wife is so feisty lol but all fights blow over in time". WTF is wrong with him? Its going to suck when he gets my note and realizes how serious I am. This is not a joke we're through.