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msc1120's picture

So this weekend was suppose to be our weekend with SS13, but according to the CO BM gets to have SS for Mother's Day. No big deal not my kid, gives me an extra SS free weekend with DH and other family. Anywho...the point of this is BM had "accidentally" called DH about a week and a half ago so he asked her what were the plans for Mother's Day she told him "I'm not sure let me check with hubby and I'll call you in a couple days." Well DH never heard one word from her so he decided we were going to make other plans screw her the world doesn't revolve around her. Well low and behold DH gets a text from her at 6:05 Friday night...

BM: What time are you coming to get SS? Oh and I need $ for his braces.

DH: You never called me and let me know what was going on so I made other plans.

BM: Well you could have called me too! (Which in her defense, as much as I hate it is true.) Hubby and I have a date tonight.

DH: Sorry, you said you were going to call me after you talked to hubby and I never heard from you.

BM: It's ok I know you don't really want him there anyway. I'll be home Sunday, bring me a check.

That last part pissed me and DH off soooo bad. If I could have reached through the phone and slapped her I would have. DH said he started to respond to that last part "Yeah that's right you dumb bitch, I don't want him that's why I DID NOT give up my rights years ago like you wanted me to!"

I can just imagine the shit that was talked about me and DH Friday night. She wanted DH to pick SS up at 6:30 Friday night and bring him back home by noon on Saturday. As much as DH loves his son and wanted to see him what the hell is the point in that? All we would have able to do is eat dinner and go to bed then breakfast and back home with him Saturday. Anyway maybe I'm being petty I was just glad DH finally stood up to BM for a change.

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CrazieCoconut86's picture

If I were your DH, I would mail a check directly to the orthodontist. That way, BM doesn't get access to the funds.

And BM's are just insane. BM here, didn't change the plans, it was our Sunday with SS. When we picked him up, she didn't mention anything about changing the drop-off point. At around 2:30 or 3, she texts DH asking if he can drop SS off at a different place, because she is going to take her mother out to dinner at 6, which is when we drop SS off.

Why the hell does she make plans (all the time BTW) when she knows that she will have to pick up or drop off SS? I don't get it. The CO has been like this for 4 years now. ugh. DH told her that we would be on the other side of town visiting his parents, but he would be willing to drop SS off early, as it was mothers day. No, she will be at the normal spot at the normal time.

Sucks when he doesn't bend over backwards, doesn't it.