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Submitted by msc1120 on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 7:48am

Today is the big day, stbxh and I meet with the bankruptcy lawyer at 2:00. This will be the first time I've seen him since we seperated. I need some good vibes and some strength to get me through this. I was talking to my mom last night about all this because I had a melt down. Her cat was sitting there listening to us talk like she totally understood what was going on and I swear this cat looked me straight in the eye turned around sat down with her back to me and started flicking her tail then she looked at me over her shoulder (still flicking that tail) as if to say "Turn your back on him like he doesn't matter and flick your tail at him." I know this probably sounds nuts but, I think I'm going to channel the cat and hold my head high, turn my back and flick my tail at the a-hole.

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Submitted by overwhelmed_und... on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 8:03am

You stay strong and hold your ground. Don't give that bastard an inch... unless its an inch of rope to hang himself!!! Ill be there with you in spirit. Hold your head up because you are the best thing he will never have again. Stay strong till you can get away from him and break down later if you need to. You are a wonderful, beautiful, amazing woman and YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!!!

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Submitted by msc1120 on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 8:07am

Thank you overwhelmed!! I'm just sitting back channeling the honeybadger and waiting on karma.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Wed, 06/06/2012 - 9:04am

When I am in difficult situations I channel my alter ego (whoever that may be on any given day). Pretend you are acting in a play or movie. Be classy and nice. Exceedingly so. And the Dumbarse can see what he is missing and what he NEVER gets to touch again. Gracious to the extreme and sit up straight. And yuour reward is an icecream of choice.