I'm new at this blogging stuff so I don't really know where to start because it has been going on for so loooooooong now. but it guess i can start from the beginning. I am in the army and was stationed down south and thats where i met my now husband and we became friends and there was a big group of us who had hung out allll the time so we were all close and talked about everything. He had told us that he had divorced his sons mother because she had cheated on him when he went to basic and got preggers and had the nerve to try and tell him it was his but how could he get her preggers if he was overseas? So anyway she told that since he wouldnt take her back that she was going to marry the guy who got her pregnant because she had nothing to fall back on, now mind you she calls and tells him everything all day everyday, so he knew everything about the guy and when they would fight she would call and tell him. now mind you he was still paying her c.s and her rent and bills. because she refuses to work and he didnt want his son to go without because she is a bad mother. so at this time me and him are still just friends but he was telling her about me and she was telling him he should see what was up and all that. so 2 yrs go by and then we started dating and she was fine with that saying she was happy for him and by this time she already married the guy who got her pregnant and she is pregnant again at this time. So I'm like great no baby mama drama! WRONG!!!!! The day before we got married he told her we were going to do it because we just came back from iraq and it was vday, the DAY we got married she texted him and said i hate myself for what i did to you and i still love you and i hate myself so much that i cut myself. I still have the text to this day! It was that moment that told me that she was going to cause trouble, and I was right! Me and my stepson have always had a great relationship and he had his dad do also. TO be Cont. have to get to work LOL