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Kicked my 18 year old son out

Mr.Just.His.Wife's picture

Incredibly long story made short: He punched my wife in the face. Why? Because she told him he was not allowed to smoke in the house. New habit the kid picked up since he turned 18. She did not tell him he could not smoke she told him not in the house, to take it outside where even she smokes. By the time I made it home DW had already physically thrown him out of the house.

He was raised better than this. Even his POS mother has drilled into the boys heads never to raise a hand to a woman. He knows how I feel about it, his grandparents etc. The kid has nowhere to go I will not let him back into my house after he laid hands on my wife, there is no member of the family that will take him in for the same reason. My father and brother want to get thier hands on him for daring to hit a woman.

DW says she is ok. Would not let me call the cops on him. Which I don't understand, he hit her, his punk little ass needs to be in jail or under my boot. DW apparently beat his ass as she threw him out the door she figures he got what he deserved his ass beat by a woman. Sorry, in my mind he hit a woman he needs his ass well and truly beat by a couple of men to permanently drill it into his head that he is never to physically harm a woman.

I can't even form a real sentences here. Please ignore the typos. Every time I see DW's face and the shiner he gave her rage just builds up, no release for it in sight, the gray matter is scrambled and FUCK! my kid hit my wife just keeps running through my head. My fault. Kid showed a few months ago he was ok with cussing at her and being utterly disrespectful to DW, then he shoved his older sister at school which caused more fights. He is just chosing to act like an asshole thinking, hell I don't know what he is thinking or if he even is.

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ctnmom's picture

Well, I know you're mad, but you guys DID handle it as well to be expected. Hope those habits treat him well in the real world! God bless, sorry you're going through this. Keep us posted.

misSTEP's picture

I'm sorry that your son is letting his ass show. Good for you (and your wife) in proving to him what a bad decision that is.