Update on Am I wrong??
Update:
I knew us arguing would lead to something. SD15 wants to come visit for the first time in 9 months. She wants to bring "her friend" up. All three will visit this weekend. Husband just asked if my daughter can go to a friends house so his daughter and friend can have my daughter's room for the weekend since his 2 sons will be up also. I asked if this was really fair to my daughter and who is this friend. I was told to get over myself this is the first time in 9 months she is visiting and her friend is named "Becca". He is picking all of them up tonight since they don't have school tomorrow.
Letting this slide?? All are lying big time and "Becca" is SS14 girlfriend.
NOPE!!! I just called the school to find out that they are not closed tomorrow.
I called husband at work to inform him but he left already. I guess he's going to have a long drive tonight after I tell him they will all be "skipping school" and this girl needs to call her parents to let my husband speak with them that he has taken her to our home for the weekend, she won't be in school tomorrow and she will be with her boyfriend all weekend.
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Don't you love how your dh just
Don't you love how your dh just took sd's word for it without checking. I too agree it is not fair to expect your bd to leave so sd and friend could have her room. Good luck this weekend.
Are you or your dh going to be home tomorrow if they are their or are they going to be by themselves?
...the way I see it, you can either run from it, or learn from it. - The Lion King
Staying home???
I am not staying home with this mess. And husband can't due to just coming off a lay-off a month ago. This is the stuff normal parents would be calling us irresponsible or trashy!! My mother-in-law asked if we were available for dinner on Sunday and all of this came pouring out. I think she is now in the middle of migraine trying to contact her son over this.
BM and I have never spoken to each other once since the beginning but I think it's high time to get her number and ask her some serious parenting questions!!
I agree about getting bm's
I agree about getting bm's number, I think your dh will be setting your household up for some serious problems if this happens. This would be one thing I would absolutely put my foot down on.
...the way I see it, you can either run from it, or learn from it. - The Lion King
Ahh
My daughter contacted husband and told him who "becca" is and what was going on. He came home mad at the world but then slumped in his chair in disappointment. Won't admit to me that this was very wrong on his part and their part but its enough for me to see he understands now.
Nope!!
My mother in law is trying to contact him now to tell him. He's refusing my calls. We will get in some serious trouble! This is my last straw with these kids!! And with Husband too!!!!! Gotta leave work now to try to stop all this craziness!!
whoa.
Holy Moley! Sounds like you're going to have your hands full this weekend, whether they end up staying or not. I don't think that it's okay for your daughter to be singled out like that. I know that it wouldn't make me feel like a part of the family. And it's really not cool for your SD to be pulling stunts like that. It's not your fault that she doesn't want to visit...she's using Dads guilt against all of you! Good luck, hun.
This would fly in my house either.
There is no way I would be shipping my son or daughter off to her firends house for the weekend so another friend can use his/her room. No way in hell!!
In my house if a friend sleeps over for the weekend, that friend either sleeps on a blow up mattress or on the couch and that goes for all kids and any of DH or my friends that decide to pass out at our place after drinking a slab of beer.
This is destine for disaster. I hope you can talk some sense to your hubby. My figures are crossed for you.