DH birthday weekend with skid when very well. skid seemed like he likes being home and constantly told his dad he loved him. Prior to this saturday BM got mad and DH for not being in a different town to make it easier for her to drop skid off. she snapped out and said she wasn't sending any school clothes it was all up to us. On saturday when the exchanged occured i wasn't there and my neighbor took my place. BM told DH happy birthday which is a total shock and a half. We emailed to clarify pickup and BM thought school started but she actually had another week. She came monday to pick up skid and hugged my husband while crying and told him love you as she got in her car with skid. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT? I again wasn't there for the exchange because my hatred is too strong for this woman.
DH gets an email from BM saying sorry for issues, communication needs to be between them without lawyers, counseling or parenting classes for them, skids birthday can be shared by all of us, thank you for helping her through school and then saying she forgives me and hopefully i can do the same.
DH isn't the best at grammer or spelling so we discussed together how to respond to email. I wrote the email addressing each topic she wrote about. told her good luck on bar exam, no counseling or parenting classes, communication without lawyers is good as long as each person has their point heard and that i'm not trying to take her place but understand im here and not hurting skid. yes it doesn't sound anything like my husband but we as husband and wife discussed these issues together and came to an agreement.
Her response.....thank you for the reply and he wife needs to be more mature and let us speak directly only and that yes we get that she is your wife.
There was the dig we were waiting for. What's up her sleeve? Did darling bf dump her for wasting his money? Does she not want to do all the driving? She wants to only talk to my husband because she wants to manipulate him and try to control without me around to know whats going on. My husband tells me everything what is she thinking?
I feel i should continue the writing back and forth and also go on the exchanges because she isn't going to worm her way into my husbands life again like that. we are trying to make a family and this woman has something up her sleeve.