Our kids BM had the audacity to try and tattle in court to our judge who pretty much can't stand her because of the bullshit she pulled with her kids. She actually whined that she had bought sd9 a phone and that we wont let her use it. mndblwn, that phone (ridiculous for a 9 year old anyways) is sitting on my counter in my kitchen hooked up to my charger with the ringer on high. sd9 is a little girl. She has homework, and friends, and games to play. She doesn't sit all day and night waiting for mommy dearest to call her. So DH tells judge that he has NEVER prevented her from speaking to sd9, and that sd15 has a phone and is in contact with BM whenever she likes so how does it make sense to limit one if we weren't to the other? Plus he added BM could talk to her on sd15's phone OR more importantly could call DH's phone and ask to talk to her anytime in the evening before bed and would put her on directly. So judge asks her how many times she has attempted to call DH to get ahold of her daughter. BM admits - well none. Judge just snorts and says "Moving on to the real issues at hand..."

These women are so ridiculous.At one point she had the audacity to guilt sd9 into calling her at a specific time every single day - that is until BM never answered her phone! sd9 finally gave up. BM kept promising she would call then sd9 sat by the phone for 4 hours waiting night after night. Took about a week. Got old. sd9 never even touches that goofy phone anymore.

Sorry, but if you complain that she has never called during her court appointed time, you then go to court and she actually calls at her court appointed time, what is the reason you didn't let her talk to him? It sounds like our crazy BM who complains ahole doesn't see his daughter, then he buys a f$#%$#%ing ticket to go see her and she never answers the phone, knowing he was coming and skips town...lovely.