Starting off....BM doesn't want to drive a lot this next week to see skid. She claims its too much for skid and she will give up time to make up later. Our CO says no makeup unless we take from her. We tell BM if she thinks its too much driving then skid can stay hom and DH gets full custody. She says no way and the judge says to co parent (remember she has only been around for a year and a half).

The same day she tells us to coparent skid gets chest pain at school. He has a heart condition so we all have to take it seriously. DH is on his way to work out of cell range so the school calls me. I don't hesitate and go get skid to take to ER. I call BM to tell her. BM of course wants to tell me what to do even though I work at the hospital so I know everything already. She thinks skid is all upset yet skid is fine. I let her even talk to him yet when she killed a man in front of skid DH wasn't allowed to talk to him until the scheduled time. So I sit with skid for 2 hrs then DH shows up. I keep BM informed. She tells me to have skid call if he is scared. I tell her DH is here and it will be fine. She tells me that I don't understand even though I should since ill be a mom soon (she just found out I was prego). Then in her nasty way tells me she hopes its going well. I tell her I'm not putting up with her pathetic shit and will only speak to her about info on skid. She threatens me with her attorney. Again its a threat.

Skid is fine after workup and doc says to get a stress test done asap. He calls BM since she doesn't believe us. His discharge notes state asap! BM asks who will take skid cuz they don't do them at our hospital. We say we will. She tells us that we better not schedule the appointment any time in the next week and a half because its her time and its to be uninterrupted. We tell her if first appointment is next week will she take him. She tells us basically no. Skid is out of school for spring break and so is DH. My thought is coparenting? She doesn't like disrupting skids school for things but now for this appointment we will have to pull him out. She doesn't want to pay for the driving or plane to get there.

As I'm sitting there I'm thinking how nice it would be if skid how two insurances to pay for this visit. Well BM had him on hers which she is supposed to per divorce decree yet because we would help her with driving she dropped the insurance. Her having it at first caused me to drop mine which all bills get written off at my hospital so now skid only has one through DH. BM won't pay her half since she hasn't paid off her own bill on skid since december 2010.

Grrrrrrrrrrr