Ss13 arrived last night for the weekend visitation. This is the first time he has been here since doing the partial inpatient therapy. He was diagnosed with unspecified disruptive behavior. I looked it up and CD and ODD fall into this category. I was diagnosed with ODD when I was a teen and I think it's all BUllSh!t. It just gave me me an excused and a label to be a bratty teen.

The therapist sent home papers and one paper really stood out. Ss13 wrote down his likes and dislikes. He states that dh, me and his stepdad are mean and unfair. He said my dh called him names, which is not true. My dh has never called anyone a bad name. He has called Bm a "bad person", but never a name. Ss13 stated that school should stop sending homework home with him and if they do someone should help him. Ss also stated that the school should stop sending home letters that he is failing so he doesn't get into trouble.

The list goes on, and I read all this and think he is an entitled little brat.

He is turning I to Bm, he is going to blame the world for his misfortunes in life and expect hand outs. I am done with this kid!

Last night he opened up his birthday gifts from dh side of the family. Ss13 got $100 and was talking about what he was going to buy. I told him he owed me $25 and he asked for what. I had to show him the $20 lock on my bedroom door and showed him a screen shot of my VS underwear that Bm sent us.

Ss was informed that If he tried to steal anything from my house again, I would call the cops. Ss likes to threaten to "runaway" when he gets into trouble, and Bm takes him to the hospitial and he gets to miss school. This hospitial is geared towards kids, so there are fun activities. I told ss that if he pulls that shit here, I would call the cops and they would take him to juvy.

I stay with my husband because I love him more then I hate my stepson. I have a BS10 months that I need to think of. When ss13 is not at my house, things are great. I just pretend he doesn't exist, and my dh knows not to bring up the subject.