i will try to make this short. my ss is 9 yrs old i have been married for 7 years. i have been in ss life for 9 years. my husbands and i have been on and off when ss was born and we got back together. so last year my husband and i seperated for 5 months during this time my husband got full custody of ss (bio mom says she didnt knoe we were apart) right! at this time she was homeless , she does drugs and it caught up with her. hopeing my husband would let them move in and she had a boyfriend for 8 years that she would toss for my husband anytime.
any who
ss and i got along great. while mu husband and i were apart ss would come stay with me and our daughter at our apartment. then husband and i worked things out and got back together and we moved home. ss was happy and asking when i was going to get him from school to take him home and things were going well.
then ss started telling my husbands family that i didnt love him and i was mean, then ss would start crying saying he wanted to go to his moms and didnt know why he had to be with me when daddy is working ( husbands gone threw the week for work) and only wanted to come on the weekends bc daddys home. now i find myself not happy and not wanting to be around ss. ss purposly starts fights always making comments and saying things that he cant wait to go to his moms, fighting with my daughter and hurting her. i dont trust him and i dont love him. i read its ok you dont have to love them or feel like there yours.hes 9 so this whole thing he doesnt understand i dont buy. he has no rules at his moms, goes to peoples apartments to hang out with older kids, he acts like a punk. i told my husband ss is to stay with his mom threw the week with his mother and when school starts he can go back to threw the week. only bc i dont watn him to ruin my daughter and i summer.
please help, im finding myself in bad moods and taking ss home faster and faster everyweek when its time.
please help, ive talked to ss and husband has talked to ss but ss already for tattoo and a fun running life of us not telling him anything.