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Submitted by mandie on Tue, 12/14/2010 - 1:01pm

well i dont even no were to start! i have raised my step daughter from the age of 2yrs she is now 7 her mother never cared for the relationship that i have had wit her this lady is CRAZY!!! i have done everything in my power to get along with her one day she likes me the next she hates my guts and everything is all ways directed at me. back on 2007 my husband went to court and got 50% coustody because of the way his ex was living her life this women has lied on us went to Child welfare serv on us saying that we beat her child which was a lie and they new it once they came to our home to interview us and we told them about all her issues they closed the case i mean its all ways something i dont no what she wants my husband is just ready to give up and pay child support and give her full custody because we cant deal with her anymore i dont no what to do can someone please help me i find my self angry with my husband most the time and i dont want to feel that way because i love him but i cant take this anymore its been going on way to long.... Sad

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Submitted by georgiagirl on Tue, 12/14/2010 - 8:44pm

I can say this. We lost our custody battle and our BM got full custody. It only got worse. She then had ALL the control. And if your DH is ready to give in now just wait til she has the power to control his every move. If you have joint custody you should keep it. It is hard and my DH and I have been through a lot with his BM. When he lost his joint custody everything got worse! To the point where we are curently separated. It is a constant struggle but at least with joint custody you dont have to answer to her. Be strong and hold on! Good luck!

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Submitted by georgiagirl on Tue, 12/14/2010 - 8:47pm

I can say this. We lost our custody battle and our BM got full custody. It only got worse. She then had ALL the control. And if your DH is ready to give in now just wait til she has the power to control his every move. If you have joint custody you should keep it. It is hard and my DH and I have been through a lot with his BM. When he lost his joint custody everything got worse! To the point where we are curently separated. It is a constant struggle but at least with joint custody you dont have to answer to her. Be strong and hold on! Good luck!