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Mandi's picture

Hello Everyone,

I came across this site while I was researching different ways to deal with my boyfriend's ex-wife. I have read many of the posts, but this is the first time posting one of my own.

I figured now was a good time to utilize this site to help save my sanity because in one week, we are closing on a house that we bought together. Up until this time, we have maintained separate homes and limited our time together when we each had our children. (I have physical custody of 2 girls, 8 & 10, and he has liberal visitation of a 13 year old daughter & 11 year old son.) We all get along well, and have taken a family vacation together, but just recently decided to blend our family homes.

My boyfriend's ex, who we'll call Wacko (that's the name he's given her) went nuts when she found out we were moving in together, calling him and asking him if I was worth giving up his family for, and if I am that much better than she is. (Keep in mind that they have been divorced for almost 7 years and we have only been together for 2.)

Wacko has done some crazy things in the past, and I just know that I am going to need some advice and somewhere to vent. It is just bound to get crazier!

Anyway, I am glad I have found this site, and expect that it will help save my sanity!

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papergirl31128's picture

Welcome and good luck- this site is great-we are here for you

Dawn-Moderator's picture

I'm glad you found this site and signed up. It sounds like you might be in for a bumpy ride. Hopefully, not but we are here if you need us.

Dawn

Cruella's picture

The ladies on this site are wonderful and we are going through the same kind of issues. It is nice to know there is a place where we can vent and someone will actually hear you and know you are not crazy.

My skids mother threatened the same kind of things that you are going through. Guess what you have a right to be together. Legally she couldnt do a thing. What a surprise it was to her when we decided to run off and get married. We didn't even tell the kids until the day we got married. They were thrilled. BM didn't call for months after that LOL!

laughterandtears's picture

I suspect you will find many new friends here!!!

IF IT WAS EASY, EVERYONE WOULD DO IT.

Mocha2001's picture

Welcome ... the support here is GREAT!

~ Katrina

Anne 8102's picture

...but we will certainly Thelma-and-Louise you all the way!

~ Anne ~

"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission."
-Eleanor Roosevelt

Sebbie's picture

De inimico non loquaris sed cogities.
You definantly will not feel alone here.lol.