Hello Everyone,

I came across this site while I was researching different ways to deal with my boyfriend's ex-wife. I have read many of the posts, but this is the first time posting one of my own.

I figured now was a good time to utilize this site to help save my sanity because in one week, we are closing on a house that we bought together. Up until this time, we have maintained separate homes and limited our time together when we each had our children. (I have physical custody of 2 girls, 8 & 10, and he has liberal visitation of a 13 year old daughter & 11 year old son.) We all get along well, and have taken a family vacation together, but just recently decided to blend our family homes.

My boyfriend's ex, who we'll call Wacko (that's the name he's given her) went nuts when she found out we were moving in together, calling him and asking him if I was worth giving up his family for, and if I am that much better than she is. (Keep in mind that they have been divorced for almost 7 years and we have only been together for 2.)

Wacko has done some crazy things in the past, and I just know that I am going to need some advice and somewhere to vent. It is just bound to get crazier!

Anyway, I am glad I have found this site, and expect that it will help save my sanity!