He HATES My Mother...
Sometimes I feel like DH isn't very supportive. It's his way or no way. Anytime we argue (which starts because I voice my opinion) he ALWAYS mentions my mom. Yes they don't like each other, but if I don't tolerate her talking about him I shouldn't have to deal with it coming from him! I barely see my family and I wish he understood how much him down talking her is hurting me....sigh
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This is emotionally abusive
This is emotionally abusive behavior. On all three counts.
1. You are not allowed to have an opinion
2. It’s his way or no way
3. He is isolating you from your family
Find a domestic abuse hotline and start extracting yourself from this marriage.
I don't think my DH hates my
I don't think my DH hates my sister (12 years younger than I am - I am a mother figure to her). But he does disagree with her on many, many things - political and other things. As do I. But my sister also does not go postal in her opposition to our views. We all agree to disagree with respect.
But he is never disrespectful to her. When she had medical issues and I needed to take care of her in our home he didn't bat an eyelash over her being there.
I don't want to hate SS32 - even though I have zero respect for him. I try hard not to hate him as that is destructive to ME. He is just not a good person that I want in my life - he's a leach and a user. I do not like people who want to use me.
just before we broke up SO
just before we broke up SO would take stabs at my family and nasty ones, eventually I got very very angry and told him... seems like you have a problem with my family, I'm sorry we have money and class and I'm sorry my parents are not piss poor commoners like yours...thus blame your parents and not me or mine
that was the end he never brought up my family again lol....