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The party's almost over!

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SD has been gone to BM for 2 wks. BF and I have had a great time together these 2 wks. Thought we were now on the same page re SD as BF has assured me that when she gets home things are going to be good. I was even believing him! Then, 2 nights before she is to come home BF comes home to say he misses his kid. Then, he gets up from the nice dinner I made him and starts bitching me out because he see's that I rearranged one of her pics in the living rm. He says the pic is too close to the bottom shelf. Just to let you know there are three 8x10 pics of her on those shelves. Then, he proceeds to go all over the house and point out that her pic is not on the top of any shelf. He is going bolistic and making me very upset! I feel like he must have two personalities. Just yesterday we spent the whole day together and had a great day. I am just looking for someone who can relate. I get so tired of living like this. Now he is on the sofa again. We fight about SD even when she's not here! I imagine as soon as she gets home he will put her right back up on that pedestal.

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I should have called BF DH instead. We have been married barely over 1 yr. I certainly feel like running but I want to try to stick it out. I have 6 yrs. to go. Is there a life after stepmotherhood? I'm glad to see you said he has guilty Daddy syndrome. I suspected it. Today he calls me and says all the sweet stuff. He is wanting rather expecting me to go pick SD up tomorrow from her mom's. He knows I will not if I am upset with him. I told him that he is just using me to help him with his daughter. That's how I feel. I am freakin dreading her comming home!