since late friday afternoon SD has been with BB, SD has called a few times about me dropping off stuff she forgot- no biggie, and I do have to do most of the grown up stuff like making it to SD apps, and making sure to get more meds over there cause as for par- BB does not have a clue how to budget at all- I swear the female could get a billion dollars and have nothing to show for it within a year!!!
BB actually has gotten a larger sum of money at a single time before and yes it was pissed away in no time flat and trust me SD did not benefit, no body really did cause it was so wrecklessly wasted....
DH and I may be able to get out next week and take some time to just be us for the first time since the baby was born... keep your fingers crossed that his work doesn't mess this up!