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Submitted by Lpatience123 on Thu, 12/03/2020 - 9:44pm

I swear I'm going to kill something! well, my husband put his foot down with 23 yr old daughter, so now she's going to pay rent this is after she said she wasn't going to pay bc it's so unfair. She's trash-talked my hubs to her family and now they think he's being a horrible parent. The ex-wife wants to face time a family meeting and discuss this issue as to why we are charging princess rent. The last time I checked her name isn't on the mortgage and she has no say as to what happens in my house period! The kid is 23 yrs old she's an adult which she keeps reminding us about, so then why does she need mommy to fight her battles? I usually try to keep an even keel and not get involved too much in this drama, but I'm about ready to lose my shit! We let her stay with us to help her save for a down payment on a house so far she bought a dog for 1,000 a new television for 1,200 wants a 70 thousand dollar jeep and thinks she can save for a house mind blown as to how this is all going to happen in a years time. I already want to kill the dog she left it in it's crate the last two days and all it does is scream and howl I feel bad for the little guy, but I don't have time to babysit it. The dog is not fully potty trained and is teething so you have to watch it like a hawk I've caught it chewing on my furniture a couple of times. I told hubs to tell her she can't leave the dog for more than 30 min bc he has separation anxiety and starts howling bloody murder. I just want my house back I hate the negative energy in here she needs to go. 

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ndc's picture

Submitted by ndc on Thu, 12/03/2020 - 9:47pm

Send her to mommy, and mommy can choose to let her live rent free.

What does rent get you?  Tell your husband to get her out- it's not worth whatever she pays to put up with her.

 

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Submitted by The_Upgrade on Thu, 12/03/2020 - 10:31pm

No amount of money could convince me to share a house with someone like your SD. I'd kill something too if i had to do it for free....

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Submitted by Wicked stepmo. on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 6:46am

I agree with the above posters. Tell BM she is absolutely correct and you are sending SD to live with her where she will be treated better.

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 6:55am

I HATE people who get a dog and just leave them in crates!!! Our rescue has seperation anxiety so I put him in doggy day care when my kids were in school so that he wouldn't tear up the house. He loved it!!! I had never seen a dog dance but he danced his wiggley butt in that daycare every day!!

As for the rest of it, forget rent. Give her 30 days to get the F out of your house. She can stay with BM or she can get her own place. 23 and can't figure out life- time for some hard lessons!!

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Submitted by tog redux on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 7:54am

Get rid of the dog, she's neglecting it. And your DH should ignore BM. If she wants her to live rent-free, she can move her in. 

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Submitted by Stepdrama2020 on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 9:51am

Time for princess dog abuser to get the heck out. She obviously does not have time to love and nurture a pup cruelty must be her specialty. Tell poor little Cinderella to go back to BM's where she can live rent free and BM can love the pup since she doesnt have time for that.

I would raise hell, be nasty to get the spoiled b*tch out.

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Submitted by Hesitant to try on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 5:50pm

If she's really not taking care of that dog, PLEASE call the humane society. She shouldn't be allowed to harm an innocent animal!

And I agree with all the others - she should go live with BM. And no amount of rent makes this worth it for you anyway so just get her out, and the dog to a better place.