So today went well..another ballgame..i made sure to say hello to
BM n her man..we even sat on the same bleachers but not too close..i was into the game..but she speaks so loudly its hard not to over hear her chatting with her man n other parents of the team players...Another mom asks: oh wow two boys how cute..u
want a 3rd? BM: oh yes a gurl..but it really doesnt matter cuz i just want to stay home..I dnt want to work. Other mom: oh..i see.....Proves i was rite bout her..shes so dependant on her man and my boyfrend..two baby daddys pay her way..so sad..as a hard working independant woman it pains me to see grown women with no education..no goals..n reliant on others..i work two jobs (i want to i like to) my man works full time..i have a degree in child dev im also on my 15yr as a hairstylist..im always trying to empower women to work and support themselves..i wonder if she would accept help. My man doesnt tell me much bout her the last 19 mo but im good at reading people..and everything ive thot about her life is true..its sad to know that my step son has a mom who hasnt worked in 8 yrs...no car..no diploma..im not saying u cant b a stay at home mom if thatz what u want to do..but she doesnt have any other options..sad..the frustrating part is 3 people work their asses of to provide for her son..ME his dad my man and her current man..WTF? Am or over thinking this? will my SS think this is ok?