SD spilled the beans.
For those that remember, BM's RO against DH states that when there is visitation with skids, it must be supervised by MIL. According to MIL, skids have not been coming to her home recently, except for once when she texted DH at 10:30p to let him know that they were there and were leaving "very early in the morning".
At SS8's baseball game last night, SD10 came over to stand with us (we can't sit down because DH has to be 200ft away from BM @@). Knowing that school is out for the summer, DH asked SD who they were staying with during the day while BM and SF are working.
DH: Where have you guys been going during the day?
SD: Lisa's.
DH: Who's Lisa?
SD: You remember Caleb? His mom. We go there on Mondays.
DH: What about the rest of the week?
SD: We've been at Nana's.
DH's heart about sank down to his toes. MIL never once called him to let him know that skids were there, so that he could have had the opportunity to see them! This woman infuriates me! All of this is because she has banded together with BM because they don't like ME! How in the world can her not liking me spin in to preventing her son from seeing his children? DH has seen SD twice over a 2-3 week period for an hour or so while we were at SS's ballgames. However, he hasn't actually gotten to talk to SS face-to-face in MONTHS. Before we are able to see SS after the games, BM starts walking towards where we are because she knows DH will have to leave. It's sickening, and I'm about fed up with MIL and her shit too.
That lawyer can't draw those papers up quick enough, I swear.
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I was told in an RO situation
I was told in an RO situation (in IL) the person who arrives second has to leave don't know if that'll help but maybe if your DH puts himself smack dab where his son will be before tge game he can see him, if in my state the BM then made her way to him SHE is in violation of the RO and can be arrested for breaking it. In Illinois the RO goes both ways and either can be charged with breaking it. I wonder if she's or mil are in contempt of the RO visitation denying him access even though mil has had them?
When we went to court, the
When we went to court, the judge told DH that even if he was somewhere FIRST and BM arrived later, he would still have to leave.
It's a very messed up situation.
I hope DH is writing every
I hope DH is writing every thing down. keep dates and times. He needs to start texting and asking to see the kids at MIL. He needs to keep those phone records. He needs to do this for a month or 2 to show in court that hes been trying and their not responding. Or that their making excuses. If the co sayes that MIL should be doing those sv and she not contacting when she has the kids I would think shes in contempted. I would tell MIL that you want to see your kids no less that EOW. . Don't just sit back and wait for her to call you. That looks bad. Be aggressive but not harrassing. Let them hang them selves.
It's contempt if they don't
It's contempt if they don't let him see the kids when the CO says, but I don't think it's contempt if she doesn't invite him to be with them every time the kids are at her place.