So my DH and I have been off work together for the last 3 days. We have been with the kids... SS11 BD11 BS4 and I havent said A WORD towards or about SS ...and I feel good about that...especially because SS is being his annoying, misbehaving self in front of DADDY!!! And DADDY is dealing with it!! Im so surprised!!! Usually SS is only with his dad one whole day ALONE....and he acts like an angel... so DADDY is seeing what I have been telling him all ALONG!!!! Is there light at the end of this TUNNEL?????

Okay maybe I am crazy but my SS11 LOVES when his father and I fight!!! I try to discipline him and when daddy comes and gives him his way...it makes us fight and he sneaks a little smirk at me!! Well today I called him on it in front of the whole familY..Im so tired of him doing this. And I tell myself that I wouldnt fall for his BS anymore...but my DH just gives in and NEVER backs me up!! WHAT GIVES????? I was doing so well for a while...but today I snapped....I WANT OUT!!

Just a question:

Is anybody living in the same house BM and DH shared before you were in the picture? How do you feel about it? I have been living in the same house DH shared with BM for over 5 yrs now~I have made it my own~changed EVERYTHING! He was living in it alone for 4 yrs before I moved in...but sometimes it makes me sick to think she walked the same floors... :sick:

So, my H is required by court to provide health insurance for his 2 children, my SS11 and SD14. SD14 is now living with her mother and ss11 is with us. Well BM is always running up insurance bills and bouncing checks for copays...leaving my husband with the bills....(since its HIS insurance)....and he just pays them. Pisses me off to no end, but what can I do. He is very proud of his OUTSTANDING credit rating and doesnt want any issues.